I will only choose someone with similar values and ideals as my friend or life partner.

Seasonal fruits help prevent seasonal diseases. I will eat seasonal fruits regularly.

I will pray with complete devotion. As soon as I start to pray my mind will be free of all superfluous thoughts and dwell only on God. Every prayer will become a union with God.

I will never make false promises. I will tactfully avoid arguments and controversies.

Enthusiasm is the greatest asset for success. It beats money, power and influence. I am a real enthusiast.

I am warm and friendly towards everyone. My words are positive and encouraging. I will win every heart with humility and good behavior.

Not looks or background, but skill and expertise will be the foundation of my professional advancement.

Family is the best human source of emotional security. I am devoting time to nurture my family.

Today I will work with self-assurance.
Action today will help me build a secure tomorrow.

I will judge my progress not by how long I studied but by how much I actually learnt.

Silent and persistent work is the best kind of publicity. Instead of worrying about publicity I will just keep on doing my work persistently.

My mind is a reservoir of joy and energy. The joy in my mind will wash away the disease from my body.

The combination of skill, intelligence, hard work, and loyal devotion will make me successful in my work.

Daydreaming is the loafer's escape. 'Impossible' is the coward's excuse. I will take practical steps to make the seemingly impossible possible.

True love is the life force of all relationships. Love does not judge, but tries to understand; does not impose, but shares. I will be truly loving.

Insults are like counterfeit coins. I can't avoid being given them, but I can refuse to accept them.

One day circumstances will turn in my favor. I am patiently preparing myself to take full advantage of that day.

I always keep myself busy and I am happy because I have no time to worry.

I will practice pranayama (deep breathing) regularly. I will be more active and energetic.

Common hobbies and interests make conversation more interesting. I am developing interesting hobbies.

A 'me first' attitude turns life into a tiring burden. Empathy and service bring joy and vibrancy to life. I will choose the path of service.

I will always seek the advice of experts and well wishers in matters I do not know.

I know true strength lies in togetherness. I will always be with the sangha (association of good people).

I will learn something new everyday. In this way I will stay vibrant and jubilant.

I read good books. So I have the knowledge and information to assess any situation and make the correct decision.

At the first opportunity I will thank everyone who has helped me.

I never say anything based on suspicion. I only say something when I am certain of its truth.

Uncleanness is an impurity of the body. I will keep my body clean and enjoy the feeling of cleanliness.

The primary reason for failure is neither lack of abilities nor lack of opportunities, but lack of initiative. I will take initiative and attain success.

I will be totally immersed in each activity. Then each new work will become a new world, a new life, a new horizon of joy.

To me exams are an enjoyable opportunity. By proving myself in successive exams I will progress towards being first in life.

I am a cosmic traveler. With death I will start the next
phase of my cosmic journey. My last word will be
the name of my Lord. Eternal joy will be mine.

I know that no matter what my condition is, there is someone who is worse off. I will always be thankful.

I will pray or worship regularly.
I will work for God's satisfaction.
I will dedicate myself to the service of humanity.
My whole being will be enlightened by the light of truth.
I have surrendered to God.

Of all the liars in the world sometimes the worst are one's own fears. Yes, I can say I am free from all fear.

All ground-breaking ideas were born out of silence, not in committees or commissions. Every day amidst all my work I will find some silent moments.

I know God's blessings are always with the righteous. I am on the right path. I will prevail.

Instead of wasting time regretting my loss I will try to make up for it in alternate ways.

Achieving success is important, but it is more important to sustain it. I will develop the necessary qualities to sustain success.

My faith, my hope and my endurance have no limits. I shall overcome all odds.

I am a student. I am a seeker of truth. I was born to do something great. I will meditate regularly. I will concentrate on my studies, follow my routine and use my time and talent in a worthwhile way. Success will be mine.

I will identify the faults in my behavior every day. Good behavior will become a habit.

My disease is a small isolated island in an ocean of health. There is no disease from which no one has ever recovered. I will also recover.

As God's representative on earth I will do something to nurture His creation today.

The greater the pretense and extravagance involved in the wedding, the less happy the marriage. I will not turn my wedding into a spending spree.

I will use the word possibility instead of the word problem.

An animal's pleasure is sensual, the common man's intellectual and the enlightened's spiritual. I will follow the path of the enlightened.

Some relationships can never be cut off. In all such relationships, instead of putting up walls of resentment I will build bridges of understanding.

I am unique. In every thought, word and action I will express this uniqueness.

Fools repeat the same mistakes. I am learning from my mistakes everyday.

Career

Career means more than just a job, it is the sum of our contributions within and outside our jobs. We don't need a brilliant background or the right connections of create a successful career, all we need is confidence, vision, and the right attitude. These Quantum principles will help you create the right attitude for a successful career.

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This may sound simple, but you can never be successful in your career with half hearted efforts or eye wash. Those who think they can advance by simply impressing others or patching up their work somehow, derive neither satisfaction, nor success from their work. If you are true to your work, your work will bring you rewards sooner or later.

Do not hold yourself back, throw yourself completely in your work. You may change your current job if you dislike it, but as long as you are in it, try to serve your organization to the best of your ability. Do not hesitate to perform duties beyond your job description. If you are unable to do something, do not create excuses, admit it and explain the true cause openly and plainly.

Unexpected circumstances and obstacles are bound to arise in everyone’s career. It is how we deal with these circumstances that determine how well we will do. Many of us become discouraged or resentful. Many of us remain passive and wait to see what will happen.

Successful people deal with these situations pro-actively. They evaluate the situation and take speedy steps to ensure they make the most gain with the least possible loss. Often challenges or unforeseen circumstances are an opportunity in disguise. A timely and wise decision can change the whole situation.

One of the things that harm us the most in our careers is letting our personal likes and dislikes get out of hand. Sometimes we openly get into conflicts with our colleagues, other times we make biased work decisions based on our personal liking. All this harms our career.

To be successful in your career, handle interpersonal relationships professionally and tactfully. Never create conflicts with others. As Confucius says, smart people use their intelligence to avoid, not to win arguments. When you find out about a colleague’s back handed tactics, or when another misbehaves, think for a moment before you react. Is what you are about to do going to help your career? When the boss gives you negative feedback, instead of thinking ‘He (or she) doesn’t like me’, or harbouring a grudge, think of what you can do to get better feedback next time. Your career will be much smoother.

You may think it is cowardice or pandering to be completely obedient to your boss. But the truth is you won’t be able to advance in your organization without gaining your boss’s complete trust and confidence.

Never disagree with your boss. Remember, the ultimate responsibility of the task lies with your boss. Remember also that your boss, because of his/her position, might have access to information that we don’t, and his decision may arise out of that information. For example, if you are a newspaper reporter and your boss is a subeditor, he might know more about the editor’s preferences and priorities than you do.

Do not even harbour any grudge or resentment against him. This will create a distance with your boss at the subconscious level. When it is time to give someone a promotion, you wouldn’t be the one.

Continuous advancement is not possible without continuous growth and development. Evaluate yourself everyday in the light of job related skills and performances. Try to develop managerial and leadership skills. Even if you are not the official leader, try to take yourself to a position where you are effectively the leader. Get job related training. Compete with yourself.

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Many of us think that for a successful career, I must be a doctor or engineer or have an MBA, because these are the careers considered most respectable or attractive in our society. if we can't be those things we consider ourselves failures and become frustrated. 

The truth is, since the posts for doctors, engineers and MBA holders are limited; not everyone can be those things or whatever is currently considered the most prestigious job in your society. Even lesser people will be a top doctor, engineer or business executive, because the number of positions at the top is even less. And what is considered prestigious or 'in demand' today, is often out of fashion tomorrow.

Similarly, many of us believe that we must have a degree from a university at any cost, otherwise we won't be respectable. We are ready to study subjects  that we are not interested in, that teach us outdated theories and concepts that are not relevant in today’s world. They do not even help us earn a living – unless of course we become teachers in the same subject.

The truth is no honest work is demeaning. If, instead of thinking about what others will say, you choose a career based on what gives you joy, what you are good at, and how you can serve best, nothing will be able to stop your success. And if you invest time in gaining skills or knowledge that will be useful, instead of just getting a degree for a degree's sake, you will be rewarded in the long run.

Many of us think that having a government job is always a good career option because it has more security and tenure. We don't realize that looking for security in jobs often means sacrificing independence, fulfillment and ultimate success. Many tenure jobs do not pay that much, either. In any case, looking for security in life is a futile exercise since life itself is not permanent. So be brave. Do not be afraid of having to prove yourself. That is the way you will develop the most.

To many of us success means earning a lot of money in a short time and with little effort. We refuse job offers because the starting salary is not as much as we want. This attitude can only bring frustration, because there are no short cuts to career success. In most professions one needs to struggle and prove one’s self in the beginning. Those who reach the top of their professions, such as CEOs of multinationals, are usually workaholics or they love their job. In both cases, they work extremely hard and often sacrifice other areas of their life for doing so. So it is better to be prepared.

We have inherited this attitude from the colonial era, when the British created a class of ‘most obedient servants’ to help them rule over the country. We still depend on others to give us a job, and we want to do exactly what they tell us to do, no more, no less. We are afraid of making our own decisions and being responsible for them. But if we can break out of this fear, and adopt an independent career, such as building our own company or service organization, life can be extremely rewarding.

If you think earning a lot of money, fame and power will bring you happiness, you may be surprised. Both depression and suicide rates are high amongst CEOs. Reaching the top does not guarantee inner satisfaction. Evidence suggests that people whose professions involve helping others are the ones most satisfied with their jobs, and are happier than people in other kinds of job. So instead of just reaching the top, think of how you can serve, and you will get both happiness and success.

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by Tazim.