I am aligning myself to God's will. My salvation is guaranteed.

My goal is to achieve complete control over my habits. By breaking free of harmful habits I will enjoy true freedom.

I will greet everyone with love and a smile. My life will be filled with warmth and intimacy.

Consumer loans are a death trap. I will avoid this trap. I will spend according to my income.

I will stay away from gossip, backbiting, arguments and controversies in social gatherings.

Live long, happy, strong. Stay young.

I will accomplish all planned work with energy and enthusiasm. Every task will bring deep satisfaction.

Poverty, anxiety, fear, frustration and depression are the results
of lack of use or misuse of talent. I will use my talent properly.

I rejoice as much in the success of others as I would in my own.

Goodwill towards all is the true essence of all religion. I am religious, so I have goodwill for all.

I respect uniqueness and originality and know that I myself have the power to do something extraordinary. I will be truly unique.

I will protect myself from being drawn into the destructive cycle of gossiping and wasting time in the name of group study.

A calm mind can accomplish anything. Through regular meditation my mind is becoming more and more tranquil every day.

Monchhobi (vision) hits its target like a guided missile. My monchhobi will be my driving force.

I will tackle every situation with tact and confidence.

I will practice relaxation in between my work if I can. All my tiredness will dissolve in mindfulness. I will go back to my work refreshed and energized.

Imagination is more powerful than knowledge. I will use my imagination creatively to solve my problems and reach my goals.

I will never trust a liar. I will avoid all transactions with him.

I will choose the right course of action in the light of my beliefs. I will progress with the spontaneity of a flowing spring. Success will be mine.

Doubt is the first step towards the loss of faith. My faith is free from doubt and confusion.

I will consider all options before I make a decision. I will face reality in a practical and effective way.

I will notice my competitors' strengths not just their weaknesses.

I will speak words of solace to anyone in pain. I will help ease their pain.

My inner peace will draw others towards me,
my company will give them new hope and inspiration.
I will be the refuge of millions.

I know a person's hope may be his last resort. I will rekindle hope in everyone I meet.

Every cell in our body begins to believe in the picture imprinted on our mind. My monchhobi (vision) will carry me towards my goals.

Character is the sum of attitude and behavior.
I will be proactive in both respects.

I know self-control gives birth to self-respect. I will have complete control over myself.

My work will be such that in the face of death
I can say, 'Lord, I am ready'.

It takes time for a seed to grow into a tree and bear fruit. I will devote time and labor to realize my monchhobi (vision)

My consciousness is expanding. I will be able to understand and analyze everything correctly.

Opportunities often knock very softly. I will always be alert so that I can hear the knock and seize the opportunity.

Prayer and meditation will lead me in the right direction. Surely I will achieve my goal.

All real help comes from within. I will seek help within, not without.

Faith is the source of power. I believe, so I will achieve.

Collective charity brings unbounded well being.
I will donate regularly to my charity bank.

I am devoted to my work. I know I will be rewarded for it.

We are more at ease when we know what we want. I have a list of 19 things I want to achieve before I die.

Success is not an isolated achievement. Success is a mental state where the combination of faith and ability makes everything possible. I will proceed on the path of success.

I will always be with the sangha (association of good people). Together our talent will blossom fully.

Whatever we believe and imagine consciously or subconsciously happens in reality. My monchhobi (vision) is now imprinted on my mind. I will spontaneously move towards my goal.

If I treat someone ill it will one day destroy my own peace.
To protect my peace I will be kind to all.

As a host I am gracious and attentive. I see my guests to the door when they leave.

In true prayer the one who is praying and the One who answers the prayer become one. This is how I will always pray.

I have self-restraint and self-control. The joy of purity is mine.

I am developing new habits. New habits will show me the path of liberation, bring new opportunities and make my life more fulfilling. I will attain true freedom.

Accepting undue favors may cost me a high price in the future. I will be very careful about accepting favors.

I can and I will. Courage, enthusiasm and skill
will help my dreams fulfill.
All my actions will express my universal goodwill.

My memory is getting sharper every day.

Prosperity is my birthright. I will be prosperous.

What to say (and not to say!) to your spouse and how to say it

Words just don't describe reality, they create reality.  Every sound that comes out of your mouth, every word you utter, has some kind of effect on your partner. So choose what to say (or not to say) carefully.

Following these tips will help you keep your marriage happy.

  • Always be nice and respectful when you are speaking to each other. Avoid rudeness, mockery and backbiting.
  • Tell your partner you love him/her sincerely from the first day of the marriage. Even if you think they know it already, or you are expressing your love through your actions, it makes a world you difference to them to hear you say it!
  • Praise your partner’s strengths. Acknowledge whole-heartedly all his/her contributions to the family.
  • If your partner makes any mistakes, instead of criticizing immediately, explain it to them nicely at the right time.
  • Communicate in a way so that your partner does not feel blamed or judged. For example, instead of saying, “You’ve hurt me”, say, “I was hurt.” In the first case, your spouse would feel a need to defend himself, in the second case, he would feel sympathy for you.
  • Never criticize your partner in front of others.
  • Apologize without hesitation for your own mistakes.
  • In the case of misunderstandings, talk about the situation and resolve it before either of you is bitter about it. This is very important. It is much more difficult to resolve the situation once one of you has become bitter and put up a wall.
  • Make sure you talk directly to your spouse; involving third parties in such situations can be disastrous.
  • Do not ridicule or scorn your partner’s family.
  • Be a good listener. Listen to all your partner’s complaints attentively.

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by Tazim.